It's official.
I can no longer go out for a night on the town with my guy friends. It happens all the time. And by "it" I mean absolutely nothing. I could be the hottest girl in the joint, but if I'm surrounded by guys, no other guy is going to approach me.
In addition to that, the guys I hang with have no qualms about flirting and trying to hook up with other women right in front of my face. And why shouldn't they? We're not dating, I have no claim on them.
I know it's not supposed to feel like this, and that under normal circumstances I've got what guys are looking for. Case in point, on my recent trip to Las Vegas I went out with a few girl friends. Literally every guy in the club we went to paused to literally stare at me. Even the dudes in the band were distracted when I walked by. Clearly I've got the goods and I'm not ashamed of it!!
So what's my problem?
Going out with guy friends makes me feel invisible. And I don't have to put up with it! For too long I've been Gayle the nice girl who goes along with whatever so I can stay likeable. But all that ends up doing is turning me into Gayle the Doormat, and making me really annoyed with myself the next day. And it feels like crap!!!
Well no more. You dudes can find someone else to hang out with because I'm out. The next time you see me at the bar, I'll be the hot chick with fantastic cleavage and great legs, dancing in the corner with her friends and occasionally pausing to talk to a man who had the balls to come over.
You won't be able to take your eyes off of me. Meanwhile to me, you'll be totally invisible.
Doesn't feel too good does it?
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You go girl! Sounds like you need to break out. You'd think these guys could give you a hand with the dating scene. Oh, but they're GUYS. Good Luck!
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